Saturday, October 5, 2019

Things That Make Me Fall for Fall (And a Bucket List)


"A change is in the air; a great mellowing is at work.  It's in the wind, in the earth, inside each and every one of us.  And somewhere, not far off in the distance, woodsmoke is seasoning the evening sky.  

Each year, autumn arrives all bluster and, like an old friend, invites us to come outside and enjoy a few more days of color and light.  In the fall, we watch the sky.  We listen for rain.  We stop to watch the trees and their painted leaves.  We pack away our beach chairs and unpack our woolen socks.  We settle into our long pants and our sturdy boots and our trusty old raincoats.  We return to books half-read and sweaters half-knitted and favorite old recipes, written in our mother's hand.  This time of year, we remember our love for pumpkin and pecans; we pick barrels of apples and bake with buckets of cinnamon.

Each year, autumn reminds us to return to the routines that anchor our lives in time.  We feel nostalgia deeply and embrace ritual fiercely.  We go home again.  We relive glory days.  We gather together in September stadiums, around October bonfires, and at long November tables.  And in the shadow of the dimming natural world, we tell and retell tales.  

So, let's harvest all the light and goodness that we can.  Here and now, during the sweet golden hour of the year."

(As written in Magnolia Journal, by Austin Sailsbury)

In many ways, September is like a January for me.  With the start of a new school year and a big change in how our days and nights look, I've found the importance in setting aside time for intention and focus in order to usher each new season well.  In August, I always find myself in a sprint to squeeze the most out of all that sunshine.  We stay up late, eat easy meals on the deck, at the pool, or on a blanket in the grass, and we jump from one adventure to the next knowing all too well that the long warm days will soon be gone.  And while every June I close my eyes tight and wish for eternal summer, September always blows in like an inviting wool blanket around my shoulders.  This season calls me home more than any other and I welcome the slower, cozier pace more every year.  From long-stretched dinners around the table, getaways to see and savor how beautifully golden our fields turn, or the sweet, simple details like something warm to drink or a cozy knit sweater to slip into, there is much to embrace in the fall.

So come on inside and I'll make you a cup of tea.  We can curl up with a blanket and open pretty fall magazines and comfort food cookbooks and savor this sweet, special time of year...

Mums and funky pumpkins for the porch





We moved this cozy reading chair from our bedroom to the living room one night before small group and it's stayed put ever since.  I love it here right by the fireplace and right by the picture window.  I think it will stay until Christmas as our perfect perch for all the fall books and morning cups of coffee.  




Fall scented candle spree at Bath and Body Works.  


A Sunday afternoon at Barnes and Noble, stocking up on some new seasonal kids' books and a pretty stack of fall magazines for me.  






Set intentions for many meals around the table.  Cider donuts and hot cocoa for an early after school snack, pancakes and pour-over coffee on Saturday morning, charcuterie and family game night, and weeknight tomato soup and grilled cheese after football practice.  A teapot of milk and cookies for something special, fresh pie with orchard apples, a big pot of spaghetti and creamy burrata with the last of our garden tomatoes. 











A set table, a bottle of nutty red wine, a candle for ambience, and a set of table topics to spur some good conversation, laughter, and banter




A really great playlist - Ashley's Fall Vibes

And a bucket list!  Here is ours this year...  



Wednesday, October 2, 2019

Wordless Wednesday || Center Grove Orchards


The kids had the day off from school a few weeks ago and Beau and I decided to take the day off with them!  We road tripped to Center Grove Orchard for the first time and loved exploring this expansive agricultural playground together.  The kids loved the corn filled sandbox, Beau could have stayed at the apple slingshot all day, and I just loved the sunflower fields.  We were impressed with how well-maintained and designed this place was.  There was so much to explore and fun for all ages!  And the food was delicious!  The chicken pot pie and pumpkin roll were yummy, and we stocked up on all things cider donuts and homemade fudge for the ride home.  

Center Grove, I'd say you lived up to the hype, even if it meant finding corn in the oddest places for a week to follow!  We'll be back!     




























Forty Before Forty


"You settle in.  These kids, this husband, this little life you're building...you say amen.  You are slower to tell everyone how wrong they are and quicker to gather your folks and breathe gratitude.  This is your place.  These are your people.  This is your beautiful, precious life."
-Jen Hatmaker, on getting older 

One of my good friends just turned the big 4-0 this summer and created a list of 40 things she wants to do in her 40th year.  Her list was filled with fun, challenging but doable, and inspiring things she's always wanted to do but hasn't had the chance or the courage, things that would push her out of her comfort zone, or creative experiences that would bring some joy and make some memories in her milestone year.  I'm lucky enough to be a part of a few of her 40 goals and have loved following her on her little journey of checking them off.  

And because I love me a good list, it got me thinking about my own milestone year, not yet 40 (sorry, Angie) but five years before turning 40.  I started thinking about the ultimate bucket list - things I daydream about and would love to do with Beau (goodness, we'll be 17 years married), or the kids (Cruz will be a teenager, gasp!), other people I love, or for myself.  And who knows if I'll still be writing on this blog, but I think it'd be fun to document my progress and write about the things I've experienced.  I'm sure I won't cross off all of these things and I'm even more sure this list will evolve and change as the years go by by, but the simple act of dreaming and defining them is maybe more important than the act of doing them.  

Here she goes...

Ashley's 40 Before 40:

1. See the Avett Brothers at Red Rocks
2. Finish the Harry Potter series with Cruz
3. Learn to French braid
4. Go on a trip with my mom
5. Lose those last ten pounds
6. Try a hot yoga class
7. Eat vegetarian for a month
8. Go to Italy with Beau
9. Finish cooking through all the recipes in Magnolia Table
10. Take a hobby workshop of some kind
11. Visit 5 national parks
12. Nail down a skin care routine
13. Finish the kids' "party room" downstairs
14. Catch up on family photo books
15. Go on an all-inclusive resort vacation with the kids
16. Finally visit NYC
17. Start a kindness jar at home and create 40 random acts of kindness a year - document notes and inspire each other
18. Rent a cozy cabin in the woods
19. Go on an extended social media fast
20. Learn to make thee perfect dirty martini and set up a fancy bar cart somewhere in the house
21. Organize a neighborhood block party
22. Start a book club
23. Eyebrow and eyelash makeover
24. Get heirloom quilts made for the kids
25. Donate blood five times
26. Ride at least a day on RAGBRAI
27. Try stand up paddle boarding
28. Tent camp at a music festival
29. In-Depth study of five books of the Bible - at least one as a family
30. Give a Bible teaching at BASIC
31. Get my varicose veins treated 
32. Write and perform a family song together
33. Attend at least one concert a year
34. Redo and expand our garden beds
35. Eat dinner at home, at the table, for two straight weeks
36. Start recycling
37. Buy only locally (aka, no Amazon Prime) for a set amount of time
38. Start taking vitamins
39. Take in a day of pampering
40. Read and participate in the book Seven OR do a Shelftember
41. Go through my entire closet and get closer to a capsule wardrobe
42. Christmas in Chicago 
43. Renew our wedding vows

This list is obviously for fun only, but part of the fun will be documenting what I do and how it's going throughout the year.  I'm going to pick one thing a month to focus on and blog about.  Stay tuned to see what September brings... :)

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